“Never give up, for that is just the place and time that the tide will turn.”
Harriet Beecher Stowe had it right and as a life philosophy I am in complete agreement with her. Had I added a few lines to her quote, I might have also suggested that consistency is exhausting, but turning your head the other way can slowly destroy your soul. Agreed that Harriet’s words are more inspirational. At the same time, I’ve come to realize more and more that life and school life are about choices. Be consistent and never give up (and yes it’s exhausting). Or turn your head the other way, and ignore those many little things that eventually can overwhelm and lead to great problems. Which of the previous two will you make?
Environmental awareness – It’s not easy taking a stand for the environment. Just buy the plastic water bottles from the grocery store. But….water is free. Just give people paper plates for their pancakes on pancake Tuesday, but…what about all the waste (whether you think it’s compostable, recyclable or garbage and we can talk about that syrup….). Just give people paper towels for their pizza slices (again….the container solves all!). In all 3 instances, we said no. Or if I’m going to be more specific, I said no, and staff agreeing or not, followed through (thanks!). And yet I notice when people think that this is my crusade. Am I really changing people’s eco awareness? Maybe a little. And would it be easier to just let the eco degradation happen? Absolutely. With every little victory, I’m met with another obstacle. Food is always the challenge as of course packaging equals safety, and yet, do we need to give our students packaged goods? I think of the nutrition program at my last school that worked tremedously hard to offer fresh and eco friendly snacks instead of yogourt tubes and packaged muffins. It can be done, but I get that getting it takes time.
When faced with another obstacle recently around eco awareness and knowing that squashing the eco unfriendly option would not be understood, a colleague said these words “(it’s important to have that conversation about consistency and not always choosing the easiest option.” Those words buoyed me forward. Consistency in this area has been exhausting at times, but how do I promote the Dish with One Spoon Covenant – Take only what you need; Leave some for others; Keep it clean, and then ignore the very principles it espouses. Stay the course as it’s true that there is only one earth and the truth is, the students will be living on it for far longer than I will be. And shout out to fast food restaurants for finally (normally) asking people if they need the napkins or ketchup packages for their once a week post run junior chicken. I don’t thank you, and yes it was a delicious post run treat!
The School Yard…. Oh the school yard in winter. Snow impacted ice that becomes a guaranteed ice rink; hills to slide down in a roller derby of fun; rocks to climb over and gash your head. It’s not that I’m auditioning for the role of Chief of the Anti Fun Police, but yes there are any number of things to constantly reinforce in the school yard in winter. The easiest thing – indoor recess (which is a whole other story), or just let it go and play the odds. But again….consistency can make a difference. Constant reminders and more importantly, constant consequences of waiting by the wall when you ignore those reminders. Stay the course and remember that it’s generally a small group that needs those wall reminders – the rest get how to coexist and find those fun things to do. You’re outside; there’s snow; and you’re with your classmates…Done!
Dress Code – Could write an essay about that one, but briefly…when we put something in place, there’s no point talking about it if you don’t follow through. People will often look to slide but to quote the book I’ve read to many primary grades this year, “What if everybody did that?”. It’s a great phrase to consider in so many different situations. And again….consistency makes the difference.
I fully get that this whole blog may seem a banal topic, but I would counter that sometimes it’s the uninteresting minutiae of life that is so essential to get right. Laying foundations of respect, expectations, and consistency sets the stage for jumping off into many more exciting opportunities. If that foundation however is not laid, you’re guaranteed to be putting out little (and big) fires throughout the year. I’d ask you to consider what are the things in your life that you need to stay true to, and how is that journey going?
Harriet may or may not have been a sailor but she clearly understood the tides. Stay with it; Stay consistent, and by the time April and May roll around, enjoy that smooth sailing that will (hopefully) follow along.